Never Eat Alone is a tremendous self-help book that is a must read for any career minded executive interested in knowing how to manage their career to much greater effect. There are some minor issues with the book, but the good outweighs the shortcomings by such a degree that I don’t even want to mention them for fear that they may detract from the brilliant points it does make.

In this high-speed world we live in, there is a clear need to market and brand ourselves in a manner that was unthinkable just a decade ago. The speed of change, the uncertainty of our times, and the precarious nature of jobs, make networking and contact management a crucial skill set.

Written in a fluid, easy to read style, this book provides solid advice. As often happens when a book is full of creative ideas, it can spur readers to think up original ideas of their own. And that makes this book even more powerful.

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Fierce Conversations is an exceptional self-help book on developing better communication skills. This book is written by Susan Scott, a Seattle based communications consultant who advises and counsels companies and their executives on how to vastly enhance their communication skills, thus leading to improved productivity, operational effectiveness, and overall human relationships.

This book is an easy, yet powerful read, that provides simple and effective tips that can noticeably improve the communication skills of anybody interested and willing to work on them.

Though a strong tool for enhancing personal communication skills, I think it’s most powerful in a business or corporate setting where there is a constant need to successfully interact with, influence, and lead diverse groups of people.

Unfortunately, the subject of communication skills is one that many people feel is important for others, but not themselves. Why? Most people erroneously consider themselves to already possess excellent communication skills. Do you want proof? How many resumes do you receive that mention “mediocre communication skills, but working to improve them.” I’m sure you’ve never seen that line before.

Nearly 85% of the resumes I receive claim excellent or even exceptional communication skills. We all realize that no where near 85% of the population possesses excellent communication skills, but most of us wrongly assume we’re in the small group that do possess such skills.

In terms of career development, improved leadership skills, and increased effectiveness dealing with other people, there is no single skill as important as how well we communicate.

Fierce Conversations offers great advice and many helpful tips and exercises. This is a great book for anyone interested in developing stronger communication skills and thereby enhancing, not only their leadership and mentoring skills, but their overall career as well.

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By any stretch of the imagination, this classic book on spiritual enlightenment is not a business book, but it could be. Why? Because, it has the power to create clarity and focus about oneself and the world around us, including the business world. Perhaps there is no greater epiphany than truly understanding that all of our power rests in seizing the moment. The only power we have is in the moment, in the now, and the second a moment as has passed our ability to act in that instant is gone forever.

For most of us, the past and the future act as psychological chains that hamstring our life. We cannot change the past and we can not live in the future, we only have “now”, this instance, to act. The key is to make every moment count by living fully in the “now” and thereby creating a better past and preparing a better future.

The Power of Now is a fascinating, inspirational, and enlightening book that has the potential to change the way you live your life. But it’s not for everyone. While its lessons are powerful, to many people it may be too out-there. However, for those people who are able to connect with its message, it can be life altering.

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The standard job search approach is similar to that of a used-car salesman. Polish your shoes, slick back your hair, and go out and tell them whatever you must to make the sale. But there’s a big difference between you and used-car salesmen? Used car salesmen sell products they don’t give a damn about. They just want it off the lot. You on the other hand are selling yourself. And with such a precious product, it matters to whom you sell yourself.

The standard job search approach was never meant to land the right job, just any job. It’s about doing what’s necessary to get yourself off the “job lot”. This approach relies on creating a facade that you believe makes you look stronger. Think again! In our hyper-critical, modern society, this no longer works.

As a society, we just don’t believe people anymore. We’ve heard it all before. Today such actions often achieve the opposite of what we intend. Instead of appearing stronger, we are creating doubt and suspicion about who we are. The only effective counter measure is to be “genuine”. Today it’s all about being “real”. Why? Because being genuine and real slices through cynicism and creates trust and believability.

How do I know if I’m using a “standard” job search approach?

See if you recognize any of these aspects in your own job search efforts:

1. HIDE AND EMBELLISH. Where you hide weaknesses and embellish good attributes.

2. ONE SIZE FITS ALL. Where you use canned answers to common interview questions. This is based on false belief that employers are looking for specific responses and you have to oblige them in order to land the job.

3. ACT THE PART. Where you focus on “acting” your best, not “being” best. It’s about how to act, how to dress, how firmly to shake hands, etc.

If you recognize any of these approaches as part of your job search effort, you’re pursuing a standard job search approach.

The standard job search approach fails on several fronts, but perhaps the most important one is that it’s not focused on the right fit nor on long-term success. It’s simply an effort to land any job you can. Long term success requires intermediate steps that string together essential experiences and developmental opportunities. To find and land such jobs requires a serious job evaluation, but it’s difficult to conduct such an evaluation when one is busy acting a part.

Beware! As the standard used-car sales approach becomes ever more ineffective, the pundits who advocate this technique will blame the competitive landscape and stress that the solution lies in polishing your act even more. This is a smoke screen. The real culprit is the approach itself. It’s time to separate your self from this approach. And in doing so, will lead to a more effective way to land the right job for you.

This is so important, because it’s the most desirable companies that are most critical of people who hide behind facades. As a result, the standard search approach fares best with less desirable companies that are less critical in recruiting employees. Is that the kind of company you want to work for? And how long will it be before even mediocre companies won’t go for this approach?

So if you realize your job search approach is like that of a used-car salesman, today’s the day to start doing something much more powerful - be “yourself”.